He's In the Hospital
We're going to go see him after work. Please contact me with the details when you get them.
Dad fell from a ladder, he was really hurt. Our lives changed forever that day. This is his story, this is our story.
Lots to do, lots that's been done. Checkout our progress... It isn't home sweet home anymore. But now we know more than ever, Home is Where the Heart is...


From: Cleo 8/11/05
The halo is gone! It was removed on Tues. He still has to wear a plastic and foam collar until the next dr visit, but the therapist is calling to see if he has to wear it 24/7 or just when he is in wheelchair.
He now weighs 175, just before the accident he was grumbling that he was 212 and needed to lose.
He has been upgraded to eating soft-mechanical (course chopped). He is starting to take his meds crushed and mixed with apple sauce so the feeding tube will be the next to go.
He did so much better in therapy today. They had him trying to take steps in the parallel bars, but his right foot turns in and he is very weak on that side, but the left side is strong and the control seems to be getting a little better all the time. He still can't use the right arm and hand and as with the leg and foot, the left doesn't have alot of control yet, so he has to be fed.
I feed him breakfast, stay for therapy, feed him lunch and he is ready for a nap so I go home until time for dinner.
The move is coming along, I moved to Art's house last Thurs. Will be finishing the move this month.
As always, Thank God for the work that has been done in Jerry and ask for more.
"You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven."
Told Dad about a nice comment left on his blog. We went on discuss it. I told him the stranger that left it also had a blog that I had visited. I told Dad how this man was gay and how it seemed he had issues with Christians. Dad said that that is understandable. He said that Christians are not always kind. I agreed. I left a comment for the guy that we (Christians) should do what we do in love and that I know there are alot of people out there that think they're doing right, that they may be going against exactly what they profess to be. Dad said he likes to invite people like that into his life. That he thinks people who are basically good but have had struggles and have dealt with alot are sometimes just needing for others to be kind to them. He did do that, the door has always been open and many have entered and few have ever left for long. The type of people my parents are, usually makes others want to be around them. They have their views, their standards, but they always do what they do in love- most importantly (just like the bible says).
This Saturday we're having the BIG packup day (with a garage sale planned to happen soon). It is going to be alot of hard work- but I know we'll all pull together and getherdone. Not an easy time but we still have each other.
A coworker stumbled upon the fact that he had not paid my Dad for some work. Ironically this guy always reminded me of a man like my Father- it use to be a joke but I would let him it was a HUGE compliment. Anyway, this wasn't something he had to tell me about, in fact I would have likely never known BUT this person wants to do the right thing. We do have a common humanity don't we? We'll get him the bill and he wants to give my Mom the money. Something she could really use. God comes through sometimes; I know this because to me, Humanity is nothing more than the Holy Spirit in motion touching our lives when we are open to it.
Not because I was sad, but because I was happy. We talked and it was GREAT. He was totally with it. He and I might as well been chatting at his house 4 months ago, after a long day's work. Everything he said was so insightul and interesting- but mostly filled with LOVE. He's an amazingly loving person with so much goodness in his heart.